EPISODE #6
WELL THAT DIDN’T GO THE WAY I’D HOPED | AILA & BARB
About This Episode
We all know that moment, the sinking feeling when something doesn’t go the way we imagined. The launch that falls flat. The client who doesn’t sign. The program that gets two registrations instead of twenty. In this episode, Barb and Aila get honest about those moments.
Together, they explore:
• Why disappointment feels so personal (and why it isn’t)
• The illusion that getting the “right formula” guarantees success
• How to stay agile, grounded, and creative when the numbers don’t match the vision
• What it means to back yourself, even when you’re afraid you won’t be picked
This is an episode about resilience, honesty, humility, and the quiet power of staying in the game. It’s about remembering that creative work, entrepreneurship, and service-based businesses are built in the ebbs as much as the flow.
If you’ve ever had a “wah-wah” moment in your business, or a full-on crickets experience, you’ll feel deeply seen here.
Show LINKS
- Visit Aila’s Website
- Follow Aila on Instagram and Facebook
- Follow Barb on Linkedin and Instagram
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Meet Your Hosts
Aila Coats
A transformative coach, author of Coaching Teens Well, and creator of Coaching Well Mastermind, Aila has helped hundreds of coaches, parents, and leaders find their voice, serve deeply, and build thriving practices rooted in genuine connection. She’s known for her heart, wisdom, attunement, and ability to translate insight into tangible creation – helping practitioners embody what they teach in their own lives and work.
Barbara Patterson
Founder of Innerverse Global, Barb works at the intersection of human potential, transformation, and creation. Her work integrates spiritual intelligence with real-world impact — helping entrepreneurs, leaders, and practitioners bring awakening into their work and everyday lives. Known for her clarity, humor, and deep presence, she invites people into a direct relationship with their own knowing — and to live what they see.

